I came across an article I wrote for True Love magazine in 2011. I am reposting it because I am wondering if there's been much change. A friend of mine recently shared a disturbing conclusion at a dinner party. She is a Smurfette. A Smurfette, or more precisely Smurfette, seeing that there is only one, is … Continue reading What’s a Smurfette to do?
I am unwell. I have been for a long time. I have adrenal fatigue. This means that I have been under stress, running on stress hormones like adrenalin and cortisol, (which one should only be exposed to for very short periods of time) for dangerously long enough for my body to decide to cut me off by shutting down … Continue reading On Being A Vase
“Sexual response is connected to and in turn generates a larger sense of pleasure, meaning, and interest in the world,” ― Naomi Wolf, Vagina: Revised and Updated You heal your sexuality, You heal your life. If you are sexually crippled in any manner, know that to the same extent so is your creativity, sense of … Continue reading The Importance of Sexual Healing
I went to vist at Kaya FM on Monday for the Top 10 and 10 with T-bose and we had a nice chat about Mojo. What is your Mojo? How does one lose their Mojo, and more importantly how do you get it back? Find out why I advised a caller to break up with … Continue reading #needmymojoback
In The Goddess Academy Group on Facebook we have a powerful tradition called Thirstday, where we post the things we desire/thirst for. I encourage people to embrace their desires, primarily because desires inspire growth. When you thirst for something that is significantly different from your current reality you have to be willing to change in … Continue reading YOU CAN’T GET THAT FROM HERE
I have ever been a fan of the nuclear family. As an African who grew up in the township in a household with extended family members, the concept sounds extremely lonely to me. As we become increasingly more westernised households are made up of Mommy, Daddy and the babies and we don't talk to … Continue reading In the Absence of the Village, Mothers Struggle Most
I have finally settled on 5 things to focus on for my session at the Loving Women, Understanding Men: Better breakfast seminar, this Saturday the 27th. You see, one of the things I have learned about men is that they are generally overwhelmed by women's capacity to talk, seemingly about a million things at one go, so … Continue reading Decoding Women: 5 Things for less stress and more good sex