Women, we luuuuuurve romance. I am sure you know this because we reward romantic gestures with great generosity, nudge nudge wink wink. This is because romantic gestures lead to a release in oxytocin, the hormone which regulates sexual response in women. More on that at the Loving Women, Understanding Men, BETTER seminar on the 27th … Continue reading DECODING WOMEN: HOW TO BE A ROMANTIC GUY
Friday the 13th marked a major milestone for me. I got a make-up lesson from a professional make-up artist, Treasure nyembezi. This may not seem like a big deal to you, but for me it was a huge step towards “reclaiming my muchness”. When I was young I hero worshipped my uncle, Malome Tshepo. I … Continue reading Liberation by Eyeshadow
All women are born goddesses but by adulthood most of us have lost our sense of innate divinity, value and power. To experience a true goddess in action, spend a day with a 2 year old girl! I have one. She loves herself unconditionally. She is expressive, creative and has fun with herself. If, unlike … Continue reading Restore Your Goddesshood in 10 steps
It's a pity love letters are traditionally only written to the objects of our romantic feelings, as this letter by Oy-Ling to her 12 year old self is one of the best love letters I've read. Read it and hopefully it will inspires you to pen one to your own younger, past self or perhaps … Continue reading A Letter To My Younger Self
Shirley Koaho laments the fact that we are often encouraged to work together but aren't taught how to. Many women mess it up royally despite the obvious benefits. Luckily Shirley shares pointers, gleaned from her life experience, on how to be a super team player - to the benefit of all. The theme for this … Continue reading How To Work Together Is As Clear As Mud
The Hatter put his hands on his hips; his gaze was accusing. "You're not the same as you were before," he said. You were much more... muchier... you've lost your muchness," he finished, nodding as if that made perfect sense. "My muchness?" He crouched and poked her in the stomach with his finger. "In there," … Continue reading Reclaim Your Muchness
Goddess Ishtar, referred to in the bible as the Whore of Babylon, taught that anyone who denies sex denies life. Sex facilitates creation, creation represents God. How can you see the Goddess within your lover, yet deem her greatest means of creation bad?